Society deems large women as fat, obese, heavy set, unhealthy, unsexy, hideous and just a plague on society. But in reality the curvaceous and buxom beauties have been the center of art and sculptures more so than thin women.
This is not against being thin, but it is about accepting your body and loving it for what it is beautiful. If you love yourself people will see that so much more than being a curvaceous woman. I say this from experience. I have been fortunate to have been heavy, thin and heavy again. Each time I never experienced a lack of male companionship. I have been heavy all my life and not from the reasons people believe others are heavy, eating too much, no exercise, lack of motivation. Hell, I am motivated and energetic and people have a hard time keeping up with me. But genetics plays a big role in my life.
I had the recent opportunity to talk to one of my best friends from high school, a guy. He said "You look so good." I said, thanks and said "Still a red head, a few more wrinkles and still chunky." He said, I don't remember you being chunky, I just remember how cute and how nice you were and how much fun we always had together. Wow, in the end see what people remember is how you make them feel.
You can't make others feel good about who they are if you aren't feeling good about yourself. You have to become selfish. Get a pair of sexy panties or bra, or sexy shoes. Show off your assets the ones that you have been given. Accentuate the positive and you will be amazed at what others will see.
To all the curvy women out there, embrace yourself and if you are not happy with the shell that you have, YOU have the power to CHANGE IT. Don't be a victim to what society says, stand for yourself and be proud of who you are.
